Repeat as necessary until the water is clear. The mechanics of sex may feel uncomfortable and painful. Yes, sex might be messy. Going too fast or too rough can be painful I recommend a thick, silicone-based lube for the insertion tip. A healthy, fiber-rich diet lots of veggies, less meat eliminates the need to douche for some. Keep reading for 21 things to know before losing your gay virginity. Your ass has to expand to accomodate a penis, and this stretching can hurt.
Sex between men is not like porn.
21 Things to Know Before Losing Your Gay Virginity
You do not have to know what you want. Some people come out of the gate thinking they know exactly what they want sexually, but most of us are unsure. In most cases, their symptoms are mild or nonexistent. It just means you need to be in a place in life where you can get routine STI testing — men who have sex with men should be tested for HIV and other STIs every months, minimum. Men who have sex with men are not automatically gay. Photo by Jon Dean.
Thanks to a culture that is and always will be hetero-oriented, queer people are often delayed. What do you try first? Considering popping the cherry? That question is designed to shame and manipulate you. Thankfully there are many ways you can protect yourself.